When I was growing up, kids would come together at parks and swimming pools to play under the usually not so watchful eye of a handful of parents. As we got a little older, these social centers were replaced by “the mall”. Once we could drive, kids in my home town spent most Friday and Saturday nights “cruising”. That is, we would drive up and down the same 5-mile stretch of road and do stupid things in cars and yell out the windows to our friends in other cars doing the same stupid things.
Frankly, it’s a miracle any of us survived.
Today kids have an opportunity to interact with their friends and peers, but also with other people from around the world. Learning to play as part of a team in an online FPS (First Person Shooter) or collaborating with a small society to build an online world in Minecraft provide wonderful opportunities for kids to make friends, build relationships, and learn valuable life lessons all from the relative safety of their home. Now, I know what you’re thinking. What about those evil cyber predators? I don’t want my kids getting kidnapped by some weirdo online. Well, let me put your mind at ease. Despite all of the recent advancements in the development of online interactive gaming, we still do not have the technology to transport children into the computer and eject them into a cage in some cybercriminal’s basement. In other words, your kids are not going to be kidnapped or victimized online. Interacting with strangers online is unquestionably the SAFEST way to interact with strangers. It is certainly much safer than those trips I made to the mall.
However, just like letting your kids go to the park or the mall on their own, we need to be sure we teach them the rules to stay safe and that we know at least as much about the environment they will be playing in as they do.
Basic rules for online safety
Playing online can be a great experience for kids. And the lessons we teach them about how to stay safe online will also help them stay safe in real life.
I’ve created a page that lists popular games and links to resources about how to help your children play them safely.